I’m turning 29 today! In my opinion, we’re learning out whole lives. We also keep changing. What influences us in not only people we meet on our way but also everything we hear and see as well as our whole environment. There’s no way we can always be the same and that’s GREAT. After all, what sense would it make to always be stuck in one place without any kind of development?
When I started digging more into myself I understood that I had tons of work ahead. This isn’t that easy. I realized that I didn’t know myself that well because things people told me in the past had a huge influence over me. Even just the fact that I was always “shy”. I wasn’t shy, I just didn’t do what others expected me to do. When I didn’t want to hug my aunt who I didn’t even remember and who was a total stranger to me, I was called “shy”. And so this is how I saw myself.
For a few years now I’ve been working on getting to know myself and I need to admit that I like what I see. I like what’s coming up from me even though sometimes those are rather difficult situations. After all, my whole past is a part of me and I need to accept it all. Like I said on my Instagram recently, I’m the only person who’s with me 100% of the time so it’s a good idea to like myself.
Keep going forward the way you want and don’t look back. It’s worth it to follow your dreams because they do come true when you help them a tiny bit. This is what I wish myself and you – confidence to follow your goals!
And now several quick lessons I’ve learn during my life that came to my mind first with no specific order.
🌟 This is MY life, nobody else is going to live it for me, only me, so I’m going to live it in harmony with myself and I’m going to do what’s best for me without looking at what others think. Nobody else knows better what I need in life and what I don’t need. I know what’s best for me. And if I do something that later turns out to be not such a good idea that’s fine too! I learn all the time and I want to learn on my own mistakes, not on mistakes of others.
🌟 I always give my best – even when something doesn’t turn out well. My “best” varies depending on how I feel, what I do, where I am, what I want and so on. But I do always give my best!
🌟 When most people go one way, it’s usually better to turn around and go the other. I learned that the fact that one group is bigger than the other doesn’t mean that they’re right.
🌟 I am worthy of love. Each cell of my body is worthy of love. Love from myself first of all but also from others.
🌟 I feel more feminine with more body mass ;). My body changed a lot during my whole life and I now feel best even though others think differently. For some I’m too skinny and for others my belly is too big – and that’s totally OK.
🌟 I have a lot of power in my life. Not only if it comes to reaching my goals but also about my health. I can prevent a lot of diseases and I can also heal a lot of them should they appear. This gave me tons of understanding and freedom.
🌟 Being a mom is the most important thing in my life. I’ve been fulfilling my purpose in life and I can’t imagine any other way.
🌟 I don’t regret anything I’ve done in my life so far. Of course, not everything was the best decision but each one of them was made based on my knowledge and opinion at that time. And this can always change.
🌟 People come and go. If someone goes it means this is what was supposed to happen and I always find something they brought to my life anyway.
🌟 I’m important to myself. What I feel and experience is important and worthy my attention regardless of how “stupid” it seems to others.
🌟 I’m incredibly grateful for the kind of husband I have. I see him as my savor in some way because he helped me re-learn how to cry, how to trust and, most of all, how to love.
What’s the main lesson you’ve learned in your life so far? Let me know in the comments!